Statement Opposing Decision of Holyoke School Committee to Authorize Condom Distribution in the Holyoke Public Schools

Most Rev. Timothy A. McDonnell, Bishop of the Diocese of Springfield, MA, Oct. 21, 2004

I am profoundly disappointed and disturbed by the Holyoke School Committee’s recent decision to distribute condoms to students in grades 6th through 12th.

This decision is, in effect, a millstone around the necks of parents.   The school now, even if unwittingly, becomes an endorser and an enabler of early adolescent sex.

Current public policy decisions, like this, may come disguised in noble goals and objectives, but they are in fact, just a continuation of the problem our society faces regarding human sexuality.

Everywhere we turn, human sexuality has been reduced to a level of meaningless self-gratification.  Allowing for such open distribution of condoms to minors represents a clear sanctioning of this downward spiral in behavior.

The decision undermines the family unit. Parents, within the context of their own values and culture, have the legitimate right to educate and inform their children in the delicate area of human sexuality.  Parents, not the schools or government, should serve as a child’s primary guardian and teacher in moral matters. There is no respect shown for parents, by an “opt out” provision. Rather there should be an “opt-in” provision if parents wish their children to be exposed to such information and services. The Massachusetts Catholic Conference has advocated for a change in this approach in the past, only to see our effort to give parents a voice in the process rejected by the legislature.

I support those who stand in opposition to this recent decision and I strongly urge Holyoke officials to re-consider their actions. I encourage parents to re-assert themselves as their children’s primary teachers and learn more about these efforts to minimize their control over their children.

Rather than tacitly condoning illicit behavior, our community’s leaders should be setting a stronger example, returning human sexuality to its place of special importance and sacred honor.

Massachusetts Catholic Conference, http://www.macathconf.org